There are one or two that I like, but they are out of print.
Go to some bookstores (including university bookstores) and look around. Try reading a bit before deciding which book you like. (Most are crap.)
Make sure to get a book that makes sense to
you, which you can understand. If it makes you feel like you've missed something, the book is no good. It should not assume much, and should not leave steps out when working through problems.
You might also want to review your algebra too. Make sure to have a reference for when you come across something esoteric or unexpected, so you can have the basis to work with it. (As in algebra, you must know how to rearrange things to make them workable.)
Calculus really has only one basic principle (the Fundamental Theorem of Calculus), which is taught as (first)
derivation and (second) as
integration. (You have to know how to derive to integrate.)
Everything that follows (the next 4+ years in University) is just properly applying calculus to a variety of equations and circumstances. Learning calculus is basically learning to recognize patterns and applying the proper transformation.
A good place to start is also online. Wikipedia has a pretty decent overview.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Outline_of_calculus
Good luck!